Just scroll down, to the bottom of the forum page, you'll see the chat box. Click "Log In" and you're done. You can click "Join Chat" to open the chat box in another tab, so you can both chat and calmly post in the forums.
1. Do NOT flame new forum users for posting in the wrong thread. Please ask them to post in the proper forum from now on without insulting them.
(example: A new forum users posts their introduction in the Gen Diss forum, instead of yelling at them and calling them stupid or anything else of that nature, just ask them to delete it and...